All I Never Wanted To Know About Wrestling #filmreview #fightingwithmyfamily

Many moons ago, when the Lawyer was seven or so he took a shine to wrestling. Not the black and white, saggy pants variety that ITV showed on a  Saturday afternoon involving luminaries such as Mick McManus and Giant Haystacks. There was a deaf wrestler in goody goody white budgie smugglers too. It was crap. No, what he liked was the utterly mind numbing, razzmatazz-infected, steroidally-enhanced WWE. All shouty people in ridiculous costumes and with even more strangely unappealling names. He had posters and stickers and pleaded to be able to watch it.

Happily he grew out of it and I put it down to experience, sure in the certain knowledge that I’d never watch it again. Oh sure, I came across members of this elite band who’d morphed into actors – Dwayne Johnson most obviously – but that was different.

And then this film came along, Fighting With My Family, featuring Nick Frost – whose filmography is splendid – and written and directed by the unfeasibly tall geezer from the office, Stephen Merchant and I thought, well, why not?

So what did I learn?

Women wrestlers are divas – which kind of reinforced my perception that it’s more about dribbly men lusting that the athleticism of the exponents though said athleticism is apparent when you watch it up close and personal. Those women are tough.

It’s not fake but it is fixed. Like, Doh! But even saying that there’s a ton of effort and many ways they’ll get hurt.

Script a film about the journey of a Norwich council estate girl to superstardom in Lycra spanx and tinsel and you’ll get a movie with product placement like no other. WWE’s logo is ubiquitous. It’s bloody everywhere. At one point Paige says wrestling is in her blood. ‘Like hepatitis’ says her brother. ‘Yeah I’m infected with it,’ laughs Paige. By the end I felt the same about that awful logo.

Florence Pugh is a grand actress as Paige, the wrestling phenomenon and Lena Headley can play a mother who isn’t psychotically deranged, unlike her Cersei Lannister character – though she is still pretty barking.

This is a classic feelgood film. You don’t have to like wrestling to enjoy it. Indeed knowing nothing about it and therefore having no prior knowledge to undermine the story is maybe a good thing. It’s paced as a British comedy tends to be – slow and certain. It’s oddball, too and there are any number of nice touches to make you laugh.

They try – oh they try – to add tension but the heart of the film, in many ways, is not in Paige’s journey to Diva status but her brother’s failure to progress and his bitterness and eventual redemption. That makes this film stand out a little more, from the crowd.

It’s not got the width and depth that Bend It Like Beckham achieved; twenty-five years on Four Weddings and a Funeral remains a class act with genuine lump in the throat moments; Slumdog Millionaire does things feelgood movies have no right to achieve. No, it’s not in that league but it’s warming on a wet Wednesday when all the TV offers is a choice between repeating Dad’s Army episodes that bubble out like some manic after-curry fartathon and some boy-band celebrity having his gut-bacteria permed to see if it will enable him to regenerate as a Kardashian.

Just don’t expect to come out converted to the glories of modern wrestling. Which is, after all a good thing, yes?

About TanGental

My name is Geoff Le Pard. Once I was a lawyer; now I am a writer. I've published several books: a four book series following Harry Spittle as he grows from hapless student to hapless partner in a London law firm; four others in different genres; a book of poetry; four anthologies of short fiction; and a memoir of my mother. I have several more in the pipeline. I have been blogging regularly since 2014, on topic as diverse as: poetry based on famous poems; memories from my life; my garden; my dog; a whole variety of short fiction; my attempts at baking and food; travel and the consequent disasters; theatre, film and book reviews; and the occasional thought piece. Mostly it is whatever takes my fancy. I avoid politics, mostly, and religion, always. I don't mean to upset anyone but if I do, well, sorry and I suggest you go elsewhere. These are my thoughts and no one else is to blame. If you want to nab anything I post, please acknowledge where it came from.
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14 Responses to All I Never Wanted To Know About Wrestling #filmreview #fightingwithmyfamily

  1. Ritu says:

    Still sounds like an interesting watch…

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  2. If I did watch TV, Geoff, which I don’t, it certainly would not be this as I don’t like watching anything sporty. My men folk all love this stuff thought so it is good we don’t have to compete over the TV.

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  3. ‘………and some boy-band celebrity having his gut-bacteria permed to see if it will enable him to regenerate as a Kardashian.’ There went that cup of coffee………

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  4. Bryntin says:

    Tea at my Nan’s on a Saturday afternoon, World of Sport on the telly, Dickie Davis and some Big Daddy… So it’s not like that then?


    • TanGental says:

      No one does halo hair like Dickie. It should have its own museum. Sadly like Thunderbirds you can now see the strings; no magic left.


  5. George says:

    You’ve got me strangely intrigued. I’m have to seek it out.

    I’d forgotten until now that my grandmother, otherwise quite a refined woman, into flower arranging and antiques, was a big fan of the saggy pants, Mick McManus and Giant Haystacks, ITV variety. Don’t imagine a film about that would have quite the same glitzy appeal.

    Once again you have made me snort coffee through my nose at “some boy-band celebrity having his gut-bacteria permed to see if it will enable him to regenerate as a Kardashian”. Brilliant!

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  6. Widdershins says:

    I didn’t realise Lena Headley was in it, so maybe … but … nah, not even for Lena. 😀

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    • TanGental says:

      Could be wise. Though it does prove what a fine actress she is.

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      • Widdershins says:

        I’ve only ever seen her in a lovely lesbian rom-com a few years back, ‘Imagine Me and You’ and thought she had a whole lot of potential even then. I can’t quite come at Gamer of Thrones to see her there either. Funnily enough I did enjoy her performance in ‘Dredd’. 😀

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